Another Reason For Divorce-When Your Spouse is Gay
A reason for divorce that you may be surprised to hear is about is when one partner admits that he or she is gay.
This is more common then you might think. Usually, the spouse who has "come out of the closet" may have not wanted to admit he or she was gay and was suppressing their true feelings during the marriage. I know of a woman whose husband announced he was gay, after a few too many drinks, at her son's first communion party. She had no idea that her husband was gay and the news came a complete shock.
She got a divorce and is now remarried. Her ex is in a happy, long term, same sex relationship. Former New Jersey Governor James McGreevey shocked the nation when he announced in August 2004 that he was "a gay American" and would resign. Governor McGreevey has been married twice and is the father of two children. He is currently embroiled in a bitter divorce and custody battle with his ex-wife, Dina Matos McGreevey So how do you know if your husband is gay? Here are a few signs, according to infidelity expert Ruth Houston and author of "Is He Cheating on You: 829 Telltale Signs."
Suspicious non-verbal communication with other men -- a look, a touch or hug that lasts a little too long or has undertones of intimacyFrequenting gay or bisexual Web sites -- check the history in your Internet browserAn abundance of male friends with whom he seems to be too close or too familiarLots of phone calls from other menBuying or receiving expensive, intimate, or overly personal gifts from other menOverreacts to anything concerning gay men -- extreme homophobic behaviorUnusually high percentage of male friends who are gaySpends more time with his male friends than with youMale friends who are overly friendly It is important not to accuse your spouse of being gay without proof. If you are suspicious, you should ask your husband if he is gay. He may be relived to finally be able to admit the truth and stop living a life where he is not being honest with himself or you.
