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I am so frustrated! 

Oh he just kills me!  I have tried to be so nice about all of this.  I really thought that we could do this like nice grown ups but I am beginning to think I was wrong.  We are going back and forth (by email) over this whole child support & alimony issue.  He keeps insisting that we need to simply agree on an amount and that there is no calc to go by.  I am not an idiot! I know for a fact that the courts DO calc child support and alimony (if you can't agree).  Yet he keeps pushing the issue.  Not to mention that he isn't telling the attrn the whole truth about what he makes, so of course he is totally low-balling it!  I am getting pissed by the minute!  After 20 years of devotion and support so that he could become an officer in the Army! oh and a cerial cheater!  And I kept trying to work things out! Like an idiot!  Now, that I have finally had enough!  he wants me to walk away with as little as possible with no fight!?!  Whatever!!!!!  What is he thinking trying to make me agree to 1200 a month for the kids and me??? and don't touch his retirement? or the stocks?  Whatever!!!!  I want to just scream!  I'm just wondering if I should simply file quickly before he gets a chance to?????hmmmmmm.
by Rache  30 Posts 
Posted on 4/22/2008 2:51 PM
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If there is proven infidelity...file. Then have your attorney take it to court and get what you deserve. Don't be nice! I was "nice" because I was so hurt and didn't know any better, but if I had to do it all over again, I would have had my attorney chewed him up and spit him out. This is just my opinion though...do what you feel is right, and by all means...if your gut is telling you to go after something, go after it! Dont suffer anymore then you have to because of his mistakes. Good Luck!!
by sadgal   11 Posts
Posted on 4/23/2008 5:55 PM
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Thanks nutjobnextdoor. You are so right and after everything I have been through........I intend to file NOW!
by Rache   30 Posts
Posted on 4/23/2008 11:45 AM
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Oh no, dont let him get away with that.  I heard from a friend that got divorced while in the Army that his ex was entitled to half his pension, all that stuff.  Do some homework on that, if it is still like that, it may be useful to know just what you can get or use to bargain with.  I think he desperately wants to avoid court descisions, and is trying to bamboozle you into taking what HE thinks you are worth. Maybe you should file first, with a firm petition for child support/alimony all that?
by nutjobnextdoor   1 Post
Posted on 4/22/2008 4:46 PM
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