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My husband told me he don't love me anymore , and he left me and our son 2 weeks ago. We have been married 12 years. I just find out he had a date yesterday. I know our marriage is over, but, I still love him and it's hurt me a lot. He think I am processing get over him and moving on, but I am not. I don't know why I still love him. I want to see him and hear his voice. He call me everyday to check on how we are doing. He love his son so much. I still cry and can't sleep in the night. I know I have to be strong for my son. He try to be a man and he try to cheer me up. I need to find out a job and where we are going. I have no family in this county, but best of my son's future I try to stay. I am afraid, but we will get though this.

by okihana 3 Posts

Posted on 4/15/2008 6:58 PM

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I am so sorry you are feeling so bad. Trust me you are not alone. I often wonder how easily it is to just say "I don't love you anymore" for the other person. I guess what I am trying to say that with more time things will start to get a little better. I to still love my unhusband. But he is cheating on me and I am not ok with that. Sometimes I find myself wanting him to hold me, but then I realize he is not worth making my self so upset.

In your future you will find someone who loves you for you. Right now you need to focus on your self and your son. Simply take it one day at a time. You will still have moments of sadness, but in time they become less and less frequent.

Please come here when you are feeling alone and sad. There are so many people who are going through the same thing or have moved on and are happy again.

Sending a (hug) your way.

by jkf 62 Posts
Posted on 4/15/2008 8:06 PM

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