I called the other woman's husband the other day 

My divorce was finalized in March and my husband has been cheating on me since October with this chick he works with.  He of course denied the whole thing (I even had phone records and everything to prove it was going on), but he finally admitted it the day of our hearing after Court no less.  What a coward!!  Anyways, I knew where she lives because he moved down the street from her in her same town, that gave it away right there.  I also found out this past weekend from my sons that his new girlfriend had moved in with him, and of course I found out from them and not him because again he's a coward!!  So I decided since she's out of the house, I have their home phone number I will go ahead and call her husband and have a chat with him, because after all we do have something in common and they are still married and I guess their hearing is at the end of April.  We talked for 84 minutes and boy was it better than counseling!!!  I found out what a sick person she is and actually we both agreed that they deserve each other wholeheartedly!!!  She was married before and has a 19 yr old daughter with  that person, and doesn't even have a relationship with the daughter to this day.  This marriage is her second and his first they have 2 kids together ages 14 and 6 and she hardly has a relationship with them either.  Basically the father does everything for them like take off work early to take them to appointments, etc...  While she's off running around and having fun, this probably isn't her first affair on him either who knows?!  So basically she's only a mom when she wants to be.  They have already filed and were both living at the home together until one day on her husband's birthday, she packed her clothes and moved out while her 6 yr old daughter was standing at the door screaming don't leave me mom and crying!!!  What mother in her right mind can do that to her daughter?!!!  She's a sick and unfit mother if you ask me only interested in one thing!!!  She's been caught all over town in her car with my ex making out like a couple of teenagers in heat!!  She was caught doing that by her own mother in law!!  I told him if I were him I would take her to Court and file divorce and file adultry charges toward her and try to prove her unfit.  Because he wants full custody of the kids, he's afraid of her having them, and I don't want my kids around her either.  The crazy thing is, is that he works at the same place they both do and sees them every day!!!  I feel for him!  I also feel for their kids because they know their mom is a tramp and has left them for a man and that man is a loser.  But like I said we basically came to the conclusion that they both deserve each other, they are both selfish and self centered people and it was meant to be I guess.  I hope one of them gets dumped on royally so they can feel what it feels like to get the shaft!!!  I don't care which one it is either.  I may be wrong in feeling this way, but it feels right!!  I gave her husband my number so we can stay in touch and even told him that I would be a witness for him if he needed me to.  I have nothing to lose!!!