Where was I?
I should mention that my wife and I suffered several losses in trying to have a child. A little girl, Sarah Rose, was diagnosed with severe spina bifida in utero and we chose to relase her due to a poor quality of life diagnosis. My wife wa sonly about 4 months along but labor was induced and she was "born" naturally. We were able to say a brief googbye and they sent us home with the items that any parents of a newborn would receive. My son Kevin is a twin. I think I mentioned that my son is autistic but fairly high functional. His brother Liam was also diagnosed with spina bifida but it wasn't suppoosed to be as bad as his sister's. He died about 48 hours before Kevin was born The image of his body coming out of my wife is permanently seared into my memory. I say those things thinking that they had a lot to due with my wife's decision to ask for a divorce. She's not an exceptionally open person anyway and I can't imagine how she felt after losing two children. In her family, heartache or any kind of real emotion is locked away and you simply go on and act as if nothing happened.