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Giving away control. 

Yesterday I was feeling so low. Why? Bcause I gave him more power or control over me. By asking him what I could do to make him want me back, I once again gave him power. This is a cycle I need to break. I need to be regaining my power not giving it up. My power is precious to me. I may not be as assertive as most, but I need all the control I have.

In looking at what I did, I now see or realize only I can give my power and control away. I think this is a step in the right direction. Hopefully with this new understanding, I will begin to start moving on and realize that he no longer wants me and that the world will not end. I will go on. I deserve better.  Maybe there is another person in the world who will love me for me. I have a lot to give.
by jkf  62 Posts 
Posted on 4/10/2008 9:32 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement!
by jkf   62 Posts
Posted on 4/11/2008 10:48 PM
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you're right. you need to take back control. you can do it!
by mikem   286 Posts
Posted on 4/11/2008 4:35 PM
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