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It is to hard to let go.. 

Today I asked my soon to be Ex what it would take for him to want me back. He is the one cheating but I'm the one who is unable to let go and move on.

Honestly I think I must like the pain. Because I keep putting myself out there and he has no intention of taking me back. Sometimes it seems as if I can't live without him. Mentally I know I can, but emotionally I just want him back in my life. If I had known the pain of losing him would be this unbearable, I might niever have married him in the first place. I have seen other people post here who have moved on...but at this moment all I feel is alone and unwanted, and it seems as if it will never get any better.
by jkf  62 Posts 
Posted on 4/9/2008 8:55 PM
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When my unhusband (I am borrowing this term from Robert-Boyd) moved out he to started to whistle. How rude. They just don't get it.

I know I should feel better about not having to walk of egg shells anymore. I do have my good days. It's the bad days when I start to miss him arould me.

But we will get through our messes and hopefully find something better than what we were willing to settle for.

Good luck to you.
by jkf   62 Posts
Posted on 4/11/2008 10:52 PM
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I am in the exact situation as you.  It feels like he's rubbing it in my face that I want him and he doesn't want me.  The last time he came to pack some things he was walking around the house whistling.  I felt like he didn't have a care in the world while my heart was breaking.  After he left I had a good cry then finally realized all the things that I won't have to deal with anymore, and how badly he really did treat me.  As much as it hurts now and how mad I am, I am really starting to see that this is for the best.  I can concentrate on making me better now, having fun and enjoying life instead of pleasing him. My friends and family have been amazingly supportive.  Don't be affraid to talk about it, let it out.
by sbb   1 Post
Posted on 4/11/2008 1:15 AM
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