Completly Lost!!
Okay.. so I just found this site, and hopefully from what I have read, I'll be alble to get some help!! I have NO idea what to do. I NEVER thought that I would be in this spot in my life.. I only got married a little over 8 months ago, and I'm getting divorced already!!! I don't even know what to do, or where to go, or where to even start!!
My husband came home one weekend and just walked in and told me that he didn't want to be married anymore and for me to go back to my parents, and then informed me that marrying me was the biggest mistake of his life. I fought tooth and nail to stay, and finally I had my mom come get me and now I'm back living with them 1/2 way across the country from my husband. Haven't seen him in 4 months, and it's been contstant fighting. We tried to work at it, but it's more like I've been trying and he doesn't want to anymore... Finally the other night he informed me that I am nothing but a POS and many other not very friendly names! Then turned around 5 minutes later and informed me that he could see himself hurting me physically one day.. So now here I am.. sitting here with the decision that I am going to divorce, but I have no idea what to do! I'm so lost and and so confused, and I have no idea what to do with my life and no idea about anything at all!!! Any suggestions?!?!?!