I guess after 30 years My husband has decided to get himself a younger woman. We married young, he 18 me 17. I thought after 30 years we had beaten the odds. We would be married for life. It only took 4 months and my soon to be ex husband to find another woman, leave me, and now a divorce. We have been seperated since September and he now wants to hurry through a quick divorce. Some days are hard, but they are getting better. I care for an aging parent  and am stuck at home much of the time. Whether through guilt or what ever he is agreeing to my financial terms, for now at least. I have an appointment to see an attorney next week and hope to get everything set down. There are times I still cry over the loss of the person I have considered the love of my life, but I will go on and come out the other end stronger. I also write in a personal journal. It helps to put your feeling down into words. One of the hardest things is when you see 30 years of hopes and dreams in to a dollar figure. How do you assign worth to a future. We have worked for 30 years to secure our future. And now it boils down to money.