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I am a 47 year old Mother of two beatiful daughters and two grand children. I am in my second marriage and it is rolling down hill QUICK. HELP! 

Where to start... I am in my Second marriage and it is just about to end.  Do I want that?  Today I am devistated because my husband told be if there was an extra room he would not be laying the same bed as me.  ouch.. He said he is filing for a legal seperation and will be picking up all of his belonging today or tomorrow.  He will do it when there is no one home because it would be easier for us all.  Well I know that we will be married 4 years in May, with in that time My Step Father Passed, My nephew Passed, and the worst My Mom passed away also.  Two weeks after that my husband had an emergency open heart surgery and that was awful.  I truly felt that I was going to loose him too.  During all of these issues I too was ill and became a severe anemic, along with other issues.  I became very depressed and drank too much.  I never gripe at him when he goes out and does things which is quite often.  But I have to admit I am stay at home and drink and that is not right either.  I stayed home from work today... very depressed.  WHAT IS HE GOING TO DO, AND WHY? Is he comming home tonight just to leave tomorrow?  God help me, because I have No one... i need help;..
by grammy  2 Posts 
Posted on 1/17/2008 7:44 PM
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Comments for "I am a 47 year old Mother of two beatiful daughters and two grand children. I am in my second marriage and it is rolling down hill QUICK. HELP!"  (3) (You must be logged in to answer)
It sounds like you, yourself, needs some counseling as well. Staying home from work and drinking are the beginning stages of what could become a dangerous down spiral. Please get some help for yourself and your kids and grandkids! You need to be able to depend on your own strength in the even the marriage does not work out. You've come this far. Don't think about the bad things that have happened around the time frame. If you do, that will only depress you further. Spend time with those that love you and gather the strength where you can. Look for some support groups in your area or perhaps an AA meeting if you feel it is becoming an everyday needed thing to drink just to get by. *hugs*
by jesszula   255 Posts
Posted on 1/18/2008 8:57 AM
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would he consider counseling? It works! If you can. i would try and get him to go with you to someone - pastor, anybody....
by jackson   471 Posts
Posted on 1/17/2008 9:08 PM
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I do not have the answers that you look for but you did mention and are aware God. Please find the strenght within your self and seek help from your "two beautiful daughters" by talking with them about this new revelation in your life. They, too, may be able to guide in this hour of need; and, please, keep us posted...
by bp   585 Posts
Posted on 1/17/2008 8:35 PM
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