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I'm glad we could help. Don't forget: We're here for you. Feel free to come and talk, and ask questions any time. You're in my prayers Zax. I really pray that God opens both of your hearts, and reveals his plan for you both.

One of the positive attributes that my estranged wife had when we first met, and established our friendship, was her profound belief in God. Through the next few years my belief became somewhat unsettled; and, subsequently, I began to believe more in myself than God and our marriage. I did not stray in any way from my spouse but I did not nurture our love during the years that I settled into being a workaholic. I lost all that I worked hard to create in "my reality" and have had to find a new way to deal with "her reality." One thing that I have found since then is my awareness of Our Lord and the plan that He has for me. I realize that when I attempt to move things along faster through my impatience, my actions only place what I desire further from my reach. My spouse does not currently share the same belief in Our Lord; although, I do have a stronger bond and relationship with my daughter. I have a better understanding of what I need to do in my life. I just do not have my spouse in my life in the manner that I would like. I can continue to demonstrate through my actions that I am here in a positive way for her, as I said I would be; and, maybe one day, for better or worse may indeed place both of us on the same path for what we dreamed would a wonderful world for our daughter. In the meantime, I am here for all of my daughter's needs. This is a good plan that God has for me.