OMG! What until my house sells?!?
We went to court on the 21st for the preliminary agreement. And until our house sells, or we can set up some kind of time limit for me paying the payment, and maint. PLUS child support. I'm kinda screwed. I'm now bringing home less than half of what I did, and because of that I'm having to stay with friends. I probably should have put this in another category, but it's also a journal. The good thing, however, is that we did work out a variation of joint custody where she's the primary, but I get my daughter on all my days off (as far as weekends go).
I don't know, there are hours where it's easier and things are good, but then the stress and complications of dealing with a vindictive ex comes into play...
I guess overall though things are getting a little easier where they were harsh before, now there's a new set of issues to deal with.