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i want out 

i want out but he dose not he want to wait 6 more months before he can make the disson and i came back after 2 weeks of being gone becouse i am a sucker i guess he told me last year if i gave him time he would change and he did for about 2 months and then he went back to the old ways i feel like a idiot sometimes i dont know how to end it i don't love him and i ready to move on he just not ready to let go he say if i do this and we fell he file for the divorce him self we see i guess
by chrissy  9 Posts 
Posted on 12/13/2007 5:40 PM
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I agree with Robert and can relate to your situation, If it's bad, it's bad. We were counseled almost our entire marriage, and if there would have been more effort on the other side. I wouldn't be typing this comment today. You can't look at those attempts as your own personal failure. See it as you giving him a chance and Him wasting it. My soon to be ex has wasted almost 6 years of chances. So yes, definatly stay strong, you can do this.
by just-tired-of-the-crap   12 Posts
Posted on 12/14/2007 10:13 AM
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Don't feel like an idiot for trying to save your marriage! You did the right thing, you tried to make things work. Good for you! Unfortunately, he wasn't as dedicated to making changes. Changes are tough. Especially when we're asked by somebody else to make them. I'm sorry it didn't work, but now at least you know. That makes you smarter, and more dedicated. Stay strong Chrissy.
by Robert-Boyd   2669 Posts
Posted on 12/13/2007 9:05 PM
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