My husband or My girlfriend? 

My husband called me at 5am this morning. i was awake but with my friend that had spent the night so i didn't answer. he left a message, well two messages. he said he was sorry tha he slapped me and for saying all the rotten things. he was just mad at seeing me having sex with his sister plus that i should have told him that i was bisexual. he aslo ask me to forgive him, cancle the divorce, go to counseling and he has no problems if i want to have a girlfriend on the side but it would have to be strickly for sexual reasons, not love. i was shocked to hear his messages and my friend also heard them and got upset becuase i think my friend has feelings towards me. now i'm needing to see my therapist becuase i am confused again. why did he have to call. i was just getting use to my new life and my new friend being apart of it. i do have strong feelings for my new friend that go beyond sex and she has the same feelings towards me. i'm just lost on what i should do with my husband. i hate what he did but understand it so there is still love  i feel for him. i don't want have us back as husband and wife and my friend for just sex. i do feel love towards her. i know i can't have them both so who do i choice?