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The Court systems Sucks!!! 

Ya know the court system simply sucks!!  Have to say that because it's true.  I have already been to court on contempt charges against my ex due to him not reducing the price on this house that I'm stuck paying on that I can't afford--HELLOOO.  It's been for sale since Jan. and if he'd come back into reality land and reduced the price a long time ago, it would have sold a long time ago.  But NOOOOO!!!  So the magistrate (should have went in front of a judge I guess) found him in contempt which is one good thing because he has to pay me back the court costs and my attorney fees to.  But the magistrate continued the hearing because she fell for his sorry ass whine and dance about how he has no money for the loss on the house that we will take (HELLOOOO majority of people right now are taking losses--due to the market and everything).  Anyways she continued the case so he can figure out what to do with the bank and try to do a short sale (which we can't there's no hardship and we aren't behind on the payments thanks to me!!).  He applied for a short sale because he's a dumb a-- even after the realtor said we won't be able to do it.  We were supposed to go back to court next tues. and I get a call today from my attorney that his attorney filed a continuance and of course our wonderful stupid legal system that we have, has granted the continuance.  SO we will probably wait another month while I continue to pay on this godforsaken house that's drivin me further and further into debt hell--until we go back to court.  I guess the court sympathizes with his ass--even though he's the one who walked out and left his family for a two bit tramp helloooo and has no responsibility whatsoever other than to sit back and say I don't have any money--let me play the freakin' small violin for ya!!  NOT!!  I'm sick of this court system, continuing the case for what--the attorneys were in court last time with their calendars out coordinating the hearing date with their schedules--what the hell is going on now.  I feel like I'm the one being victimized here while he's got nothing done to him.  He's the one who walked out and left not me, he walked away from the house and the expense of it.  I'm tired of getting screwed every time I turn around!!  I can't afford to get health insurance either until this house sells because I'm paying on this stupid house.  I'M SO FRUSTRATED AND ABOUT TO GO POSTAL ON MY EX AND WHO CARES AT THIS POINT IF I END UP IN PRISON!!!  At least I'll be rid of this forever!! :(  Now I see why people turn to violence, yeah I know it doesn't solve anything--but it would help me out alot right now. 
by freedom  537 Posts 

Posted on 9/23/2008 7:08 PM
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Thanks scrapper.  That's what I'm trying to think about but I'm afraid the lovely court system will drag this out even further and it's ticking me off as each day goes by.  He whines he can't afford the loss but what the hell does he expect me to do on my lousy salary sit back and pay this house payment until I'm in debt hell like him--no thank you!!!  It's frustrating that's all!!
by freedom   537 Posts
Posted on 9/24/2008 8:09 PM
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I'm sorry you're going thru this.  I too can see why some turn to violence when the "system" seems to turn on you.  Hang in there and think of how good you'll feel when it's over and you won't have to deal with any of this anymore!
by scrapper   58 Posts
Posted on 9/23/2008 8:52 PM
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