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I Feel Guilty 

So the digital device that I've been lusting over for a few months now arrived today. 

I've been wanting an iPod Touch ever since they first came out.  But did I really need an iPod Touch? 

I thought so - but I made a list of reasons why I could buy one now, just to reassure myself:

  • It's not so much about the music as it is about needing an electronic calendar and contacts organizer.
  • But it's also true that my old iPod was well-loved, yet is on its last legs
  • I had some extra money, thanks to an unexpected tax refund from the state.  I also had holiday money from my mom and two Amazon gift certificates to throw into the Touch fund.  So it's not that much of a splurge if you look at it that way...
  • No one bought me a birthday gift this last year.  And no one's buying me holiday gifts this year (let's just conveniently overlook the fact that I'm not necessarily gifting others, shall we?)
  • And finally - I deserve it.  I consistently put other people's needs ahead of my own, scramble to make ends meet, and regularly play the role of martyr.


So I ordered myself an iPod Touch last week.  Tracked the Amazon delivery schedule like a fiend.  Opened it, got it up and running, and promptly fell in love, as expected.

But now?  I can't stop thinking about just how much it cost, and what I could have done with the money instead.  I could have bought a portable dishwasher, for example - and we could really use a portable dishwasher.  I could have put it into savings and created a bit more of a cushion.  I could have paid a bill or two.  And my daughter could use some new shoes, while the teenager will probably grow out of his new jeans next month. 

I still love it.  I definitely can use it.  But will I always feel vaguely guilty and slightly regretful every time I look at it? 

I hope not...
by Betsy-Richter  65 Posts 

Posted on 12/13/2007 12:09 AM
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I'm actually starting to feel better about it, because I'm really using it like I thought I would (it would have been much worse if it just sat around and didn't get used, right?)
by Betsy-Richter   65 Posts
Posted on 12/17/2007 12:42 AM
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boy do I get what you are talking about.. and honestly, i might have done the same thing about 4 months ago... but last week.. I SOLD my norstroms gift card that had a $175 balance to my sisters boyfriend... and used that money for an oil change and some minor car repairs.. and I was sad and happy all at the same time.. every time I look at my van now I have visions of purses, wallets, makeup I could have put that towards... but.. then I get to my destination safely and am okay with it. those are just things anyhow. so, in the long run, its truly about what makes you happy and some days it IS things and some days is not...I hope you enjoy your gift to yourself and know that its okay to have stuff for just you every now and then...
by chris   68 Posts
Posted on 12/13/2007 6:16 AM
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