Am I crazy 

This week has been good, been really busy at work and being able to focus better.  The STBX is still at it, and states that he is really upset that I will not take his offer, I explained to him that it was not an offer it was a statement until the offer is drafted and or discussed in court then there is no offer.  As I mentioned in previous blogs, all he wants to give me back is my last name and that isn't even up to him, since we have been married for less then a year and I paid all the bills while he did his thing with his money that he should just walk away in the shoes I bought him and doesn't care about me or my son.  He stated in his response that I spent all his money, while he was deployed, okay, deployed he only went to Basic Training and never left the country so what is he trying to do make the judge feel pity on him, also, he stated that I spent all his money again there is that word again, His, Mine, or I, it was never about Us or We and he is thinking with that attitude a judge is going to say that I was wrong and he is the spouse that gets to make the decision in court, remember this man is representing himself.  He has called me a whore, but I never cheated, he did, he has called me a bit?? because he isn't getting his way and wants to just get this divorce over so that he can move forward.  All his money is tied up because in the state I live in, if your to receive any monies at all, such as his bonus from the government it shows on our credit reports that we are in the process of a divorce, and until it is public record of the actual divorce it doesn't get released until a decision has been made this keeps anyone of us from spending big amounts of money and or putting the other one in debt as well as know one can buy a car or a home.  The problem is I don't have any problem giving this man a divorce so he can move on, it just makes me mad that he marries me and then leaves and never looks back....  9/20-update, what a great day, no calls since Thursday, my son had a great birthday and its been nice not having to deal with the STBX and the names..  I think that maybe he will just move on and let me be, he has some new intrests in his life who I am sure have no clue that he is married and or going through a divorce, I'm glad that he has moved on but I feel sorry for the new girls because of the rebound theory....