Uggh, I have the flu. It started after I decided to move around all the furniture to "reclaim my space". Maybe it unleashed some bad mojo from the ex-boyfriend or maybe it was my ex coming for a visit with our daughter, but I have not been out of bed since Sunday night. I need to get myself up and in the shower to make a meeting in a few hours, but the thought of it is daunting. I have 10,000 e-mails I need to go through and am way behind on work.
My daughter isn't feeling great either, and I feel bad because I am too sick to take care of her. My hope is that by tonight when she is feeling worse, I will be feeling better.
In the meantime, I highly recommend moving the furniture around. It helps change the dynamic where everything is a trigger of some kind of memory. Especially the bedroom and the living room. That really has helped. I had a friend come and help with my bedroom, which was great, because I really couldn't see it any other way. When I can actually get out of bed, I am going to smudge the whole place with some sage and get rid of that bad mojo!