My story 

Hi I am just caught in middle what do I do? Me & husband have been married 20 yrs and he tells me he doesn't have the love a man should have for his wife. but 4 yrs ago he tried to kill himself over me leaving him. well i came home and he took new job and now he tells me that, he wears body spray to work, goes to work hour before shift he has called another woman on cell claims it was cause she wanted his in put on her troubled marriage, he just is acting funny.help me
Well now i see alot clearly now, I just found out someone in my family has seen him making out with her in car at his job . He tells me I lost love for you, i guess so she;s getting it now. we can't work on our marriage when she's in picture. He tells me It might take 6 months or a year to see if we have a marriage. I really think he's wanting time to see if she'll leave her oldman and if so they'll be together. but i'm not sure i can hang in and know he's doing this. he gets off at 7am and comes home 9am-4pm i never know when to expect him home. he also puts cell phone under his pillow...