So, my STBX wants to go away for the weekend with our 9 year old son. It's my 40th birthday, but she says she doesn't have any money but really wants to spend my birthday with me. So guess what! The Sucker (me) goes away, we have a great time, she's flirty with me, etc etc. When we get back, I ask her if she'd like to continue counseling and try to reconcile the divorce. She says " what do you mean? I have every intention of going through with the divorce. I never said anything to the contrary!"
Now, we meet at a neutral spot to exchange our son. She hates that. I'm now contesting the divorce agreement of parenting time because she wants to come to all my sons' extracurricular activities even when it's on my parenting time. She also told me she only went to therapy with me because she wanted me to know it was mostly my fault.
Her best line to me the whole time has been "I want a divorce now, but I really see being married to you again in the future" and I fell for it, but no more.
Please...I love my son, this is killing me, but don't end up being a sucker. Anyone ever have the 'future' line used on you? Please let me know what you think!