Why I cannot see my kids 

A father who want to see his kids but he cannot why not.
The reason is that I do not have a number to talk to them directly.
I would love to call Dylan my son and say hello and talk to him directly.

I have tried to talk to my kids before and was not able to because my x-wife prevented me from talking to my son. I disconnect her phone line because when I try to talk to my kids she would not put them on the phone. Instead I get to talk to her put me down and blaming me.

Here is how the conversation goes. I caller her and I ask is Dylan there can I talk to him. I get the answer No. I also get the message you have left the kids and me so why would you want to talk to them. This is not a kind communication.

When they are my kids. I should have a right to talk to them people might say. But I do not have the right. I have no document saying I can communicate with the kids. No legal form. Nothing that can put the person in jail or make that person seems that I have a right to talk to my kids.

I have to go through legal channels. I filed for legal divorce but court has not said I can talk to the kids yet.

Can the kids call me? Yes. Do they have my number? Yes. My number has not changed its on every document that they have at home and tons of paper work that I have written that they have has my name and number on it. I listed my number is not private. If someone goes to myspace or facebook they can call me. So if my number is known and I have a phone that goes directly to me. If no one calls me. Then it’s assumed no one want to talk to me. Then the problem is that they are prevented from calling me. I am prevented from calling them because someone is in control of if they can receive the phone call or not. When they call me they get me because it is my direct number.

The kids are not old enough to have a cell phone that I can call them directly. I gave Mary a cell phone long time a go so I can talk to the kids and her. That phone line is disconnected. So calling another number that is valid is not possible.

Next if I was to send my kids a sell phone. There is no possible way that that phone will be used to call me. Since they cannot call me now. How are they going to call me in the future if I send them a cell phone? Here is an analogy if I give a person a car to drive. I have no way of knowing that that car will be driven when they have not driven a car before.  So send them a phone will not be used to call me. It would be abused as a weapon of hate to hurt me. Since Mary or her mom has anything good to say about me what make me think that they value anything that is given to them. Especially a phone that is for a kid to talk to their dad.

This is what a person would do who has control of 4 kids who really want to have the kids talk to there father. They would actually call or try to find out the number.  Or ask a relative what my number is. My email address is still valid someone can email me and asks. What my number is. Try looking on the web for Larry Collins. You would find me on Linkedin as well as other sites. I am not hiding.

If you know how to get the 4 kids to talk to me without having to call someone else let me know.