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Could Things Ever Work Out For Us Again? 

Oh dear, I don't know if I could ever go through the hurt and pain ever again. His cheating was just too much for me to deal with, especially since I went through this with him twice. After we divorced the first time, it took me nearly 9 months to get back with him, even then I was really horrified by what we went through. I thought the second time around things would be fine. Surely he would have learned his lesson. ..... nope, that was wrong. He only cheated on me double. Now it's been quite awhile since we have broken up and he still would like to have me back. Why does he think it will work out the third time? Doesn't he think that I have any feelings? Does he think that I am able to sweep all this under the rug and just go back to him? I need to keep the distance between us in order for him to get the point that I KNOW I could never go through his cheating again.
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I wonder if sometimes it is better to not keep going back to behavior that is almost sure to tear you down once again.  Love yourself enough to move forward, away from a man who seems to have little regard for your heart all together.  What the hell is he cheating for if he claims he wants you????  Is he mentally impaired or does he have a hole where is heart and conscience should be. 

Girl, you need to get away from someone who is wasting the best years of your life.  Love is absolutely nothing without integrity and the intention of causing your loved one nothing short of happiness.....Bull, he wants you back only because you keep letting him continue to have you and he knows he can get a little on the side and you'll bounce back.  Stop bouncing.  Let him feel how you feel.  You don't need this type of emotional abuse.    LOVE you.  He doesn't if he is seeking whatever he gets outside of your marriage. 
Please stay strong.  You can make it without this terribly bleak future outlook on life.  Time is a gift.  Cherish that and find yourself and respect yourself and move forward.
by marmalade   25 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2008 9:11 PM
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