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Mid-Life Crisis 

I have been reading alot on this website and see alot of folks talking about their spouses mid-life crisis.  That is exactly what I think is happening to my husband.  My husband refused to admit in counseling that he was cheating and when he got caught he left and said he could not attempt to reconcile because of guilt and shame.   Now why I initially wanted to try to work through it is beyond me, guess I still loved the man I had known for 11 years and wanted our family to stay together.  What are other people's experiences with spouses and mid-life crisis.  Has anyone ever had a spouse realize what the hell they did to their lives and try to make ammends for their actions.  Like I said earlier, I am still in shock and going through so many ups and downs with my emotions....hatred, anger, sorrow, missing him, grieving, and just wanting to wake up from this nightmare. 
by madymom  135 Posts 

Posted on 8/24/2008 4:10 PM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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MM, I always try to be stright up no rosy and my spelling sucks so please excuse. I went through my MlC  and you know I woke up to what was really going on around me. I had a cheating  spouse and a marriage that I felt like an outsider in. I tried for more that 25 years to make it work and to be a good father but as I relized I was a outsider and and paycheck. So I ended my 30 year marriage and started freash. when I findly woke up I was in a different state with a totaly different lady that I wish I found 30 years prior. Some men  go through it because they think they are all that where they fail to relize it was the one that was standing beside them No excuse it a point in a mans life when he relizes where he is at and  depending on the situation  he tries to make up for what he thinks  he lost. I found that there is no replacment for a good woman and my kids that have grown up and don't seem to need me any more . I went through mine and yes I had my chance to play around with another but the thing that stopped me was my faith and who I made my promise to. But mine is over and a 30 year marriage seems like a dream and hardly no thought about. I have  been divorced 5 years now  not so bad  after I got sucker off my forehead LOL.I must say. The point is hang in there but besure you know what you will find acceptable in his actions and follow through. Best of luck to you

just one of the guys
by Gomezz   187 Posts
Posted on 9/5/2008 12:23 PM
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Madymom,
I'm from MD too!!!
by strongwoman   20 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 10:40 PM
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