Thank You....
On my last post I asked about confronting the "OW" . I want to thank everyone for there advice after alot of thinking I decided to step back and not confront her. I came to realize that in order for me to move on is to "accept" what happened and not let it break me and become a bitter, angry woman. I guess why I wanted to confront her is as you all know she still works with my husband (different shifts) but, what friends are telling me and my husband she is still asking questions about our relationship like " How does his wife look" " Is she pretty" "Is she going to leave him" and she told one of her friends to tell my husband that "Her doors will always be open to him" . I just wanted to confront her and tell her " to get over it" and "move on" and his intentions were never to leave his "family" for you! but, I won't I will just put everything behind me and try to become the person I used to be. I know "what goes around comes around" and one day she will be in my shoes!! So, again "thank you" everyone for your advice it really has helped me and of course it feels good to know that I can go to this website and "express my feelings" and know that someone out there has gone, or is going through the same thing I am and understands exactly how I am feeling right now. Thanks, I actually woke up today feeling "OK" and said "Today will be the day I make a change for "ME" and a postitive one at that" I will not let the "OW" break me no way!! In order for me and my husband to move on I will have to "accept" and figure out why it happened! and try to make changes in our marriage I realize that my husband is trying to change for the better he looks foward to going to marriage counseling and when we go and it's done he now realizes how I am feeling and makes time to talk to me. I will focus on my "FAMILY" and take it day by day.