Last night my stbx called and started on me that I am getting too greedy. That he just wants to live in peace. That I had blown everything up to make him look like a monster. I am so tired of just listening and taking his crap. Last night I finally started barking back. I took one dresser and my son furniture I had to buy used or get someone else left over for furniture. While my stbx is sitting pretty on my new furniture that I paid for. He is only paying for child care which is $200. a month. He has not paid me for child support. He is mad as hell that I am asking for his financial. Yes! I want to know what he has, does that make me greedy? No I want to make sure I don't get stuck with bills I don't know about. I finally blow up about he only wanting to give me $30,000 from his 401K I am asking for half which he put a ton of money in when we where married and had no kids at the time. Which he would be getting half of mine. I was so angry that I started yelling at him for borrowing $45,000 out of his 401k behind my back. I reminded him of mean and cruel thing he has done to me and our son. I am so tired of fighting I just want this to be over but I am tired of being his doormat. I want to sleep at night and not have my head racing all the time. I HATE FEELING THIS WAY! WHEN IS THIS GOING TO STOP!
Lioness :O(