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Why, when I just start to think i have a handle on things... 

does this damn loneliness overtake me? The past 2 days have been hell! I thought I was finally over feeling like this but no! It came back with a vengeance today. Part of the problem is that I'm exhausted from not sleeping and I just don't feel like doing anything. I sit at the computer trying to somehow find a way out of being lonely and I think it just makes it worse. It's been like walking into an empty room for me lately. I think the more exhausted I get the more emotional I become and it just compounds my feelings. I'm just feeling down right awful today. I guess I'll TRY to step away from the computer and find something else to occupy my mind. It sure is hard when anything I can think of DOES NOT hold a candle to what I really want right now. There is literally nothing else I would rather do right now than to be with someone. Even if it were just for coffee or dinner. I've got at least 3 more months before I can even consider dating so I'm just not sure how to get through this right now. I guess it will pass but right now it just plain sucks.

My friend tells me that I wallow like this because it is what I want to do. That couldn't be further from the truth. I'm just flat sick and tired of this and it hurts like hell! I just want it to go away!

by RichBrewer  214 Posts 

Posted on 8/11/2008 6:48 PM
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I'm so sorry you are down. I understand what you are going thru--I was only married for a year, but when we separated, I went thru all the ups and downs just like you. It must be magnified for you, having been married for 15 yrs!! I'm so sorry you are hurting. There are days when you feel like you can take on the world, and days when you can barely face the world. All I can say is it WILL get better. I agree with some of the other commentors on this blog--find whatever it is that helps take the edge off, be it your faith, a counselor or trusted friend/family member to confide in. Perhaps a support group?? for me, it was my faith. And there are days when I felt so alone (once and a while there are still days like that). I just wanted to be swept off my feet by the man I had wanted my ex-husband to be: kind, respectful, loving companion. I'm still holding out hope that that day will come.

Keep your head up!!
Hugs to you, too!!!!!!
by marybecca2   424 Posts
Posted on 8/12/2008 2:33 PM
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