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8/7/08 

Last night I had to have words with my ex about her conduct with the kids.  She has really been dragging them into the middle alot lately almost like she's a teenager.  I was very brief and to the point, told her keep the kids out of it.  She shot back a very strange response about quit doing things I'm ashamed of then.  I didn't have the affair, bring the kids in the middle, or anything I am ashamed of.  Maybe this was just transferrence.  But left me confused. 

 

I am out with my buddy the next two nights.  Neither will be late.  Then food night with the boys on Saturday.  Looking forward to seeing all of them.

 

Less than two weeks until the court date.  I wish I knew what to expect but I am beginning to believe she'll pull some crap in court.  She better have proof or I bet the judge hammers her.

by falcon81  335 Posts 

Posted on 8/7/2008 11:48 AM
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Yeah...she wants to blame you ...I hope things go well in court...Poor kids.
If she continues to involve the kids make sure your lawyer knows. Most agreements have a statement in there and if she signed it it will be a contempt of court charge for her.
Why on earth can't people see that what they are doing is damaging their kids???Unbelievable!
by mtnvly   2418 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 1:17 PM
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It always backfires. 

My ex and I both understand how critical it is to shield them from the conflict.  Even so it's easy for even the most well meant comments to get twisted around.  I've already been threatened with court if I don't quit trying to manipulate her and the kids.  And all I've done is try to find some way of comforting them.

I just wrote my boys a detailed letter explaining all of this to them, and how I think we came to where we are now.  When they're old enough I'll let them read it.
by Caldwell77   59 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 12:43 PM
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