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? for the guys 

My husband does not understand that he cheated on me emotional.  And certainly doesn't understand why I can't just get over it.

 

So I am wondering is this a gut thing (not understanding that all cheating is not sex) or does not husband just have a really slow learning curve?

 

Thank you,

R

by genx  70 Posts 
Posted on 8/7/2008 11:00 AM
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Here's an interesting thought.  I'm sharing a level of intimacy with all of you that I don't share with my wife.  I'm telling you things I can't tell her.  I'm getting needs met here that she can't meet.  And if she knew, she'd be absolutely furious.

Am I having an emotional affair with all of you?

My answer is "no", for two reasons.  I have no relationship with her anymore.  But more importantly, the needs I'm meeting here are not needs that wife can meet, and has never been able to meet.
by 2much42long   333 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 1:30 PM
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The denial is just a self defence mechanism.  My ex sent videos of herself useing a vibrator and still she said it didn't mean anything.  She just couldn't face the ugly truth of the decisions she had made.
by Caldwell77   59 Posts
Posted on 8/7/2008 12:06 PM
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