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I don't want to be alone tonight 

Well, here I am again! I went to bed and felt OK I fell asleep for a bit and then I woke up with this overpowering need to not be alone. I just don't know if this will ever end. God I hate this feeling! My good friend tells me I'm just wallowing and this is really what I want so I'll have something to complain about. How in the hell could I want something like this? It hurts. It makes me tired. It isn't ever fun. Damn I feel so lost and alone tonight! Then I think, I'm almost 50! Not much time left and what time I have is zooming by! I'll be on my death bed before I know what hit me and if I miss out on much more   I don't know what I will do. I'm so tired of missing out on the really good things in life. It will be next year before I can even begin to think about finding someone. Oh god! How on earth am I going to get by until then? Even then, will I ever find someone?  As I already know, there are no guarantees! Oh damn I wish I could just go to sleep and forget about this! What in the hell did I do to deserve this? Hey it shouldn't bother me that it has been years since I've had sex. I don't need sex anyway. I want sex and I can exhist without it! I don't need to be held and to hold someone. I just want to. I need to tough it up and not be bothered by what I can't have. It's going to be a year or more if ever so I guess I better find a way to get over it! I need to enjoy life without love and passion and sex and laughter and whatever else people in love do!

 

OK wallowing rant over. I don't feel one bit better bit at least I wasted a good half hour or so. Maybe I'll get exhausted in another 3 or 4 hours and fall asleep!

by RichBrewer  213 Posts 
Posted on 7/31/2008 11:41 PM
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Thanks as usual everyone for the kind responses. I feel a little better right now but the urge to date or something is still there. I know I can't and it isn't in my best interest right now but it is there stronger than ever.
I also have to say that I appreciate the kindness from folks who are going through so much more than I am. I really don't have it that bad and things could be much worse! You guys are going through hell and you take time to be kind to me. All I can say is thank you!
Spaz, I sure hope you are healing and feeling better!

 

asim, I have my kids too but they go in 3 different directions most times! I am taking them camping next week and we are looking forward to that.  We are going to have fun!  I love my teen kids and I wouldn't trade them for the world but the longing I have can not be replaced by them. It does helps to distract me though and I do enjoy being with them.
I have to say that kids, hobbies, books, and movies are NOT what I need when I lay my head on the pillow each night. Oh well...

Branny, you are NOT a loser! I do think we are in the "up all night club" though and lets look forward to the day when this is behind us! Until then maybe all us insomniacs can keep each other company!

 

Laura, I hope you are doing well today and got enough rest! So my rant made you laugh? Well, I'm glad to hear you could be amused and can relate!

 

Teachermatti, you have a LOT going on in your life. Maybe it would be a good idea to take a step back. Although I can see how it is tempting to be in a relationship right now! Do what you need to do and if your friend is still there then it was meant to be. If not, then some other fantastic man will be lucky enough to have you in his life!

 

SKelly, I would enjoy chatting with you sometime. I think we could both use the friendship.