POST DIVORCE - Nelson's TOP 25 RESOURCES
Here's the biggest TOOLS that saved my life after my DIVORCE in 2001 !
MY TOP 25 RESOURCES
for my fellow friends, brothers and sisters going through
a DIVORCE or years AFTER a DIVORCE or ongoing ISSUES with DIVORCE and dealing with
your EX-whatever!
1. Create a Possibility to live into i.e. Abundance, Vibrant Health and PEACE !
I did my Landmark Forum in October, 2004
See the website for Landmark Education.
2. Re-Program Your Neurology with Neuro Linguistic Programming(NLP)
I completed an NLP Trainers Training after finishing NLP and Master Practitioner Levels
I re-read Frogs Into Princes, Time For Change and bought NLP tapes.
3. I befriended an IRS ATTORNEY who specialized in Family Law
to keep Child Support low!
He is my best friend!
4. Journal
I kept a journal of my life to write down all my gripes, crap and various less than glorious
issues.
5. I stayed OUT of Therapy!
Since I'm NOT sick or wanted to be categorized like what so many SHRINKS
or Clinical Psychologists/Clinical Psychiatrists DO !
I created a belief that I'm HEALTHY.
6. I learned a new martial art.
This really put the confidence and spring back into my life.
I really like Tai Chi, Hapkido, Aikido and Krav Maga. I continue to visit
different dojos and learn from each. I like the cardio benefits from
Free Sparring in Tae Kwon Do, Judo and Hapkido.
7. Charitable Events
I produced and filmed 2 Fashion Show Benefits with a modeling agency and
created my own Production TEAM for Katrina in 2005 and Make-A-Wish Foundation.
I learned about Fashion which was my weakest chain of knowledge in my life.
I plan to be a Producer and Screenplay writer someday!!
What's your weakest link? that you can study ? or learn about?
8. Re-Build or Re-Invent Yourself into a New Persona!
I'm the Time Coach or Love Warrior or Exotic Sage !
I created an online persona on myspace.com, facebook.com and zaadz.com
to assist me into Living into the Possibility of Leadership, Love and Miracles!
The purpose is to create brand new friends and a brand new social network,
so now I have many friends than before that I love and trust!
I'm responsible for my community and being in communication with people!
9. Get Certified!
Since I had been through a Chapter 7 Bankruptcy with the Divorce.
I decided to get my Life Insurance and Accident and Health Licenses and in the
process to get other licenses!! i.e. Private Pilot's, Scuba, etc.
I now created a brand new career as an Insurance Agent in the state where I live!
It can't hurt to visit a Stephen Snyder Seminar or "Life After Bankruptcy" Seminar!
10. Remember Your Dream and Build The Game!
I now have milestones from the Self Expression and Leadership Program
I attended at Landmark Education.
I now have partnerships with accountability partners and new friends to help
me win in a Project Wisdom Warrior or Game that I created.
One may imagine creating a defined timeline with multiple goals all focused
to help you succeed at your Life's Dream.
11. The Secret DVD
Learn about the Law of Attraction
12. Stick and persist with a good self-disciplined Program!
Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
Buy his Get The Edge Program and Live it!
13. Paul Scheele's NLP Paraliminal Tapes
Buy all of them! I listen to them at night or early morning before work!
14. Learn How to Market Yourself in a changing economy!
Mr Fire.com
The Attractor Factor by Joe Vitale
Zero Limits by Joe Vitale
15. Learn about Healthy Diets!
The Maker's Diet by Dr. Jordan Rubin
The ABS DIET
16. Be a Lifestyle Designer!
4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris
Start Late, Finish Rich by David Bach
Art of Possibility by Zander
Using the books above, I created a brand new lifestyle!
17. Learn How to Play Games again!
Own a Play Station, X-Box or Dell Computer.
Buy Robert Kiyosaki's Cashflow 101 Game!
Play with your children if you happen to have any children.
Games create connection, build an extraordinary relationship with them
through video and flash gaming!
18. Go Traveling to Big Cities in the United States!
I found a contract with Hewlett Packard and traveled as a Corporate Trainer
through 8 cities around the United States as I supported a Big Three Automotive
company. I trained other people brand new softwares and about hardware.
I'm a master technical trainer!
19. Build a Team Millionaire around yourself.
I'm in the process of partnering with another real estate investor,
Mortgage Banker, Realtor, Long Term Care Specialist and Title Agent
to learn about building a Cash Machine.
Read all of Loral Langemeier's books. i.e. Cash Machine
20. Network, Network, Network
I got to a charitable event or Networking party at least twice a month.
I have a brand new financial planner for myself as a result of this!
21. Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren
Identify a Purpose Driven Church in your community
22. Have best friends, male and female!
23. Create Goals, Dreams and Milestones Daily!
I own a Steven Covery Planner!
I've learned to surf on TIME hence the name at this website, The Time Coach!
24. Work out! AND Learn a new dance!
I'm going through Tony Hopkin's P90 X System!
I have an ongoing Latin-Salsa-Tango Membership at the local dance studio!
I also keep several contacts with different female partners to learn Latin Salsa
dance. I go to YA Salsa community once a month to dance hard!!
25. Be Extraordinary!
Strive to be a STAR or Celebrity in all that you do!
Be an Impeccable Warrior!
Be DO Have!