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7/22/08 

Tonight is fondue night and will be the first time my daughter joins us.  It should be alot of fun.  She was upset with me last night because I left the house without telling her where I was going.  I'll make sure I'm keeping her apprised of my wearabouts.  It was just dinner with my buddy Rob but it upset her.  So I'll do better communicating with her.  Kind of funny that when I ask her to do the same she just gets mad.  Its a tough time for her now that she's back from her trip. 

 

She had a boatload of friends over last night.  Good to see she's stepped right back in without missing a beat.  Sometimes the girls get into little tiffs that last way too long.

 

I think I'm finally over my STBX's comments on Saturday about how a high school romance was affected by cheating was so very wrong.  I could not believe what I heard out of her mouth considering her affairs are ok because they are justified.  But a hs affair is much worse.  What a DS!

 

 

by falcon81  321 Posts 

Posted on 7/22/2008 11:03 AM
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Paula1,

I think you are right.  I had been making sure my son knew my whereabouts but didn't with my daughter last night.  I just need to keep reassuring her that I am there for her no matter what.  Always reachable no matter where she stays or who she's with.  Our routines are very much upside down, but we will settle into them more once my STBX and I are apart.
by falcon81   321 Posts
Posted on 7/22/2008 12:08 PM
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without knowing all the details, i think kids, when going through a parents divorce, crave routine and fear abandonment.  i think they need massive amount of attention and be reminded constantly that you will always be there for them 24/7...and none of this is because of them. 

or maybe i'm reaching.  i tend to over examine even the smallest things.

by paula1   5231 Posts
Posted on 7/22/2008 11:42 AM
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