I am now in Greece & it is just as lovely as all the movies depict. I arrived in the wee hours Weds the 16th. I am settled now into my little apartment and went for my first swim this afternoon in the beautiful Aegean. The water is so warm and clear. The colors take your breath away.
Driving is an experience. Rules do not seem to apply and you kind of hold your breath & go. I am brave though so I am having fun chugging along in my little tiny car. The food is phenomenal - I just need to adjust to their eating schedules. For those of you who have been to this part of the world - they do adhere to a different time frame for meals. Once you get the food though it is worth the wait. However - now that the family is off on their own adventure and I am here with the dogs I can get on my own schedule. Otherwise I would end up weighing 450 # when I come back to the states from eating at 11:30 and dropping off to sleep. : )
Hope all of you are well. I am happy to be here and away from the drama of my stbxh. I have no idea if he filed the papers or not. I did my part and it is up to him now. It's funny that he was shoving the divorce down my throat and the moment I acquiesced he was stunned. Suddenly he wasn't in this huge hurry. Why do they do that? I want the divorce now & he is acting like it's no biggie. Hopefully he will follow through and we will be done with this by the middle of October. At least he agreed to voluntary wage assignment so I don't have to wonder if my support payments will show up. We are actually getting along fine. He wants more interaction than I am willing to give. He wants me to stay in contact with him & let him know all about my travels. But I just don't want to do that. It feels too odd. He acts "chummy" and I just don't want to go there. Like bp said once --- beware of that --- there is usually something behind that.
Have a great rest of your summer!