Just finished the mediation session. Only thing that got resolved was a holiday schedule. Even that she had problems with. We're going to discuss with the kids the custody schedule. Right now I want alternating weeks Mon-Mon. That way we can have weekend getaways with the kids without having to rush back. I want to do what is best for the kids and will discuss with them why I want what I want.
The one thing that pissed me off today was her statement that the only reason I want 50/50 is so I don't have to pay child support. There is so little difference between sole and joint in support that it is actually financially disadvantageous to me if I do joint. Its not about the money you stupid slut its about the kids. Haven't you heard anything I've been saying for months. Why I made offers that were better than you will get so I could keep the house for the kids, so we didn't disrupt their lives completely. I think the only reason you want them is they are your support. You had the affairs, you contracted the STD's, now you see things crumbling. You need to be a parent, not their friend or worse you being the child as you have been. That mini-vent felt good.