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The "R" word 

I know the US government is refusing to say it but I believe we are currently in a recession. The dictionary describes recession as a period shorter than the actual depression, during which there is a decline in economic trade and prosperity. When I pick up the newspaper and see all the people that are losing their homes, it hurts my heart. Then, you add the price of gas and food on top of everything else and it makes it a reality. We spend trillions on foreign aide when our people at home are struggling to survive. What’s wrong with this picture? Is it because they live in fancy houses and don't pay taxes that our government is turning a blind eye to the problems we are having here? As a single parent, how are you supposed to support your kids when you can’t afford the gas to get to work or the money it costs to buy groceries? Don't get me wrong, I'm doing fine, it’s just the others that I am worried about. If you can’t afford the necessities, life can be pretty tough. I think if you look at your monthly budget and access where your funds go, you might be able to cut some corners here and there. Many of us are use to doing that. I just don't know how long we can be expected to live under these circumstances. The price of everything is going up but the wages aren't. Why do the tax payers end up paying for everything and we don't get rewarded for our suffering? Instead, we just have to keep digging into our pockets deeper and deeper until something finally gives. It isn't fair. Something needs to be done to change the system and it needs to be done quickly. Not to mention, what about the older people on fixed incomes? How can they survive? Not pay for their meds?? Turn off the cooler on a 100 plus day? Skip meals? Our country is in sad shape. I hope and pray that something good happens soon because Id hate to see where this whole thing is going. We have been punished long enough. Recession isn't a possibility, it’s a reality, and we're living it right now. Any body beg to differ on that one? Better yet, any suggestions for people who are really having a tough time right now?


by Lori-Woodall  504 Posts 
Posted on 7/14/2008 10:02 PM
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We can only hope for a change. If it gets any worse, I dont know what people are going to do. The wages need to increase yet that means that little businesses will end up laying people off. Its a domino effect. Our country is in bad shape. Someone needs to step up and do something about it.....QUICK!!
by Lori-Woodall   504 Posts
Posted on 7/17/2008 9:05 PM
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It certainly isn't just single parents or other "single" people that are hurting so much from this "non" recession...

Pay raises have NOT kept up with the true cost of living in the last few years, and with each passing week that gas, milk, eggs, and other food/staples have been going up, the income is not going up to compensate.

Even for married couples, this is truly taking a toll...

I have to live in the same house as my STBX, who can be physically abusive just because neither one of us can afford to live on our own - too complicated to get into now, but a mortgage on a house that would sell for LESS than the mortgage balance, 2 maxed out credit cards and a home equity line of credit, just to name the ABSOLUTE minimums that keep me working 1 full time job and a part time job (he says "if I could handle working a part time job, I would" - he's physically able, but the violence would be out of control, so emotionally he can't...and he even admits it)...

It's very sad that I'm not deliquent on anything, so unless I force myself to STOP paying my bills (so, I can get some extra movies or extra steaks when I'm craving them? LOL), I cannot file for bancruptcy, but I was/sometimes still am paying for groceries and gas on the credit cards - paying just enough to take the principle down by $10/month...

And there is NO family or friends to borrow money from...I scrapped enough just to pay less than $3 G's of my own freaking money to pay for a wedding 10 years ago...NOBODY in either one of our families will give us/has any money...

So...we scrape where we can and I am driving myself into the ground and not seeing my kids because it is getting us out of the hole 25 years earlier in regards to the credit card balances...

Yet my freaking pay isn't really increasing enough...and I have 2 freaking household incomes!!!

I feel sorry for those single parents out there, I really do, but it is not always "peachy-keen" for us married people either!
by Aimless   285 Posts
Posted on 7/14/2008 11:40 PM
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