Well my stbxww did come back on Friday night, but sometime after 2 AM on Saturday Morning. She now has a job, hurray!, but I'm sure she won't use any of the money for household items, bills, etc... However if she uses it all for herself and doesn't contribute I'm sure the courts won't look kindly on that.
She is still refusing to talk to me which is problematic when raising the kids. I asked a simple question as to when she had to work and she wouldn't answer. I asked again the stated I needed to know so I could make sure the kids were taken care of. She just made some snorting noise and shrugged it off. Her irresponsibililty is unbelievable! I don't give a damn what she does as long as the kids are taken care of, but I need to know basic information to insure I can change my schedule if necessary. God I hope she leaves soon.
I went to a fun wine party on Saturday night. There was a wide range of people so the conversations were great. On Sunday went to the beach areas and just hung out. Very peaceful place to be.