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The beginning of the end? 

I really don't know where to start. I fell so in love with this man five years ago and now I just feel cold and hard inside, like all the love and warmth has drained out of me. Last week I innitiated the 'I'm not happy and don't know where we're heading anymore' talk. It went surprisingly well but it just turned out to be a case of him not taking seriously what I said. He thought a week of doing a few extra jobs around the house would fix things up again. Now we've had our second conversation and he's lost it. He is so angry because I haven't articulated my unhappiness clearly enough until now, which is really fair enough. He made such a good point that if I can't let go of all the bad things he's done to me in the past, he's got no hope of fixing anything in the future. And he's right, question is, can I let go, or has it eaten away at too much unredeemable love?  
by 3kidz  20 Posts 

Posted on 7/11/2008 7:25 AM
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You need counseling.  Both of you.  Do not deal with this alone. Therapy can and will help you deal with many issues.  Hang in there
by dyben   536 Posts
Posted on 7/11/2008 9:17 AM
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