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counseling session/ STBX if Fing up 

My therapy session went so well. I left feeling som impowerd knowing. she reasured me that is was him and not me and to stp blaming myself. I have been doing better the last day or 2. I have my moments.....The kids were suppoed to stay 2 nights with him this week but he decided he would work today so he could'nt keep them last night. I called him later to let them say gnight to him but he wasnt at the motel he's staying at. I called on his cell and he was out at his friends house who is single. He is so irrisponsible and has just distanced himself from the kids. If he really wanted to spend time with them we could have workd something out . He also informed me that on his next days off he is going to a time share in Myrtel Beach with his single buddy . when I suggested he take the kids with him since that was going to be his only days off for a while he got pissed. what a JERK!!!! He wont move any of his stuff out either.!!
by charleybear  56 Posts 

Posted on 7/10/2008 8:23 AM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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All you can do Charleybear is focus on being a good mom.  Let you're STBX screw up, you're not his mom, just protect the kids from the fall out.  You sound like a good mom, I think you'll be very good at that.  There will come a time as the kids get older that he will regret his actions, but that will be his guilt. For you now, just watch over them.

You're doing good Charleybear.
by Robert-Boyd   3880 Posts
Posted on 7/10/2008 1:44 PM
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Everything that dyben says is so very true.  Keep focusing on you and the kids.  Start to decouple best you can and it will help you move on.

Glad to hear your session went well and you like the therapist.  It will be great for you to continue with this new attitude!!!!
by falcon81   321 Posts
Posted on 7/10/2008 11:36 AM
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You are going to have go through a period of him be very selfish.  This is hard to do.  My ex did the same thing.  Now he realizes that it is not about his issues anymore and the kids need to come first in this mess.

"A year of the ex"...this is what my friends all said.  And they were right.  It is going to be a year of what he wants!!  Not what you want, so...be prepared for all of this crap.

He wants his cake and he wants to eat it to.  Put his stuff out for him...Tell him it is on the front lawn!!!  He will come get it then.  I guarntee it!
by dyben   536 Posts
Posted on 7/10/2008 11:18 AM
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