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How to have the talk 

I  want to have the talk with my husband about our marrage, but I don't know how to start it.  I know it has to just be him and myself (no kids), but we have this issue that when we start talkin about stuff like this either him or myself will get mad and say or do things that we regret.  I don't want it to be like that.  I want to have a relaxed adult conversation with him.  I just can't figure out the nice way to say its over.  How do you tell someone that you love them, but your not in love with them anymore, that you have lost your attraction to them in a nice way?    HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!
by Melissar  21 Posts 
Posted on 7/7/2008 11:43 PM
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Be straight forward and honest.  Say what's in your heart.  Don't dance around it, he deserves to know.  When you're done, he's probably going to be upset.  Listen to him.  Yes this hurts you, but know that it hurts him as well.  Know that he's probably going to say things he doesn't mean out of hurt and anger.  Be the adult, answer questions, stay calm, and try not to take anything too personal.  I'm sorry you find yourself in this situation, I wish you the best.
by Robert-Boyd   3380 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 12:16 AM
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