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New Love

I just separated from my husband last year. We have 2 little kids under 3 years. I moved out of the house last year and he has kept the kids at home. I see them often and I help babysit cause he works shifts. I am involved with an older man who is so wonderful. He is also recently separated from his wife. He is kind and supportive and I am sooo in love with him. He is very well endowed and awwwsome in bed. So much the best lover I have ever had. We like to try new things in the bedroom and sometimes we find anonther girl for a threesome. It is realy something exciting forhim. I think that my husband has found out about my relationship and will use it against me in court. What will happen if he knows about the threesomes. Any advise?

by Kel25   3 Posts 
Posted on 7/5/2008 5:10 PM
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It looks like you got some pretty good advice here....I guess Id like to give my opinion here and here it is. If you are so afraid of loosing your children...ask yourself".. why are you making these mistakes?.." Your sex life is your business but when you do things this open and run the risk of bringing home dieses and spreading them to your children that is irresponsible.

     Do you not see how this older man is using you? That is exactly what he is doing. And you want to know what you get out of it? Nothing....No kids because you are making poor choices....

     If I where you, Id pull my head out of the cloud you think your in and straighten your act up.... This kind of behavior is not a responsible way to raise children...

     On the other hand... if you enjoy what your doing and don't care if your late for your responsibilities then keep on headed on down the road your on. It is after all your choice..

    
by bleedinglovepain   533 Posts
Posted on 10/21/2008 11:04 PM
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You sound very young or if not young very immature.  Put your kids first! Don't be late to pick them up!  Be a Mom!
by 123   496 Posts
Posted on 10/21/2008 9:49 PM
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This sounds like a very 'sick' relationship...Not many things turns my stomach but this was does......Selfish is  right!
by __STRIKER__   597 Posts
Posted on 10/21/2008 9:26 PM
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I just found out that he has been talking to his wife behind my back.  He may ever have been seeing her and telling me he was working.  I am so in love.  I don't know what I'll do if I lose him.

What should I do??
by Kel25   3 Posts
Posted on 7/9/2008 2:56 PM
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You sound incredibly selfish.  Especially when you say that your ex is upset with you for being late to pick up the kids.  No kidding!  I would be too.  You were adult enough to get married and have kids, now act like one and show up on time. Sounds like the kids are far better off with him than they would be with you.
by gettinunhitched   6 Posts
Posted on 7/7/2008 11:25 AM
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You sound incredibly selfish.  Especially when you say that your ex is upset with you for being late to pick up the kids.  No kidding!  I would be too.  You were adult enough to get married and have kids, now act like one and show up on time. Sounds like the kids are far better off with him than they would be with you.
by gettinunhitched   6 Posts
Posted on 7/7/2008 11:25 AM
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