Time to start a new life

Welcome to the site.  You will find lots of people to talk to with good and bad advice. This community site is great therapy for all of us especially when you realize other people are going through the same situation.  Stay strong and read the many articles on this site to help you get through the rough times.  Good Luck!!!

Welcome, I'm new to this site but after reading your story my husband was the same and even hind all his money. I can relate to your story. My divorce has just started and he has another girlfriend that is 20 years his junior he meet at AA. Sounds like his new girlfriend is perfect for him. Hang in there and I believe we will be much better in the long run. I'm exhausted trying to please someone that will never be happy and it is time to start to please me!
Twentyyears:)

Good for you. Stay strong, Just get through today and worry about tomorrow when it comes. You can do this it is going to take time.

All I can say is this site has saved my sanity.  I feel like I have friends here that I can talk to and not go through my divorce alone.  Welcome!

Welcome Mee.  This is a great community, and we're here to listen.  Some have experienced exactly what you're going through, so you'll definately meet people who can commiserate. So write, read, and relax.  Ask if you have questions, or just vent. You've taken the first step.

Welcome again!  Oh, and Happy 4th!

Welcome mee!!!
There is much good advise on this site..much support.

Mee,
Welcome, there are a lot of us married to people with NPD. Your husband sounds like my ex.. He was always doing things behind my back. My exes' drug of choice is alcohol. He can't do anything without a beer can in his hand. Educate yourself on this disorder. Mine is a passive-aggressive. Susposedly the worst kind. He married someone else and neglected to tell me. The poor thing felt entitled to have two wives.
You are doing the right thing for yourself and your children. Be strong and don't get sucked back into his life. There is always someone on here to answer questions and "listen" when you need to vent.
Take care and good luck

Sorry don't know what happened there. I wasn't finished and even managed to send it twice!
I also wanted to tell you stay on this site! Everyone is so helpful and kind. You'll find answers and advice or just some kind words. Its great.
Good luck to you and your children.

Hi Mee, Welcome.
You are not alone! I  recently left my husband who suffers from the same condition and similar addictions. You did the right thing. I know its very hard and your very confused. Their mood changes are so difficult to understand. Some days they are well and good and kind and other days your in fear for your life. I know.
We can't help them unless they want help, unless they truly want to change. They need therapy and medication and unfortunately they don't think they need it.
You are absolutely doing the right thing! Take care of yourself and your children. Seek therapy and help for yourself and your children it truly helps.

Hi Mee, Welcome.
You are not alone! I  recently left my husband who suffers from the same condition and similar addictions. You did the right thing. I know its very hard and your very confused. Their mood changes are so difficult to understand. Some days they are well and good and kind and other days your in fear for your life. I know.
We can't help them unless they want help, unless they truly want to change. They need therapy and medication and unfortunately they don't think they need it.
You are absolutely doing the right thing! Take care of yourself and your children. Seek therapy and help for yourself and your children it truly helps.

Congratulations for escaping from this abusive marriage and getting away from this monster.  I hope you'll be strong and continue to do whats best for you and your kids.  Are you getting any help?  Therapy?  You sound like a very strong woman.,