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I do not want a devorce, but she does.

My wife wants a devorce, and I do not. The trust has been broken, and she sees no other option. She is being "nice" and said we can do a desolution so that we can decide what goes where and about custody on our 9 month old son. I do not want to loose my son, nor do I want the divorce. I want to respect her decision, but I believe we can work it out, we still love one another but she doesn't believe in the changes I have made and are making are long term which I emphasize with. I am willing to go to counsiling, but she is not. Do I have any other option than devorce?
by Charl    5 Posts   
Posted on 6/26/2008 9:17 AM    
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gomundo2 Sorry copied your response to answer and I don't know how to edit.
by Charl   5 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 12:17 PM
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From personal experience I can tell you my wife has not been in any frame of mind that should be making such life changing decisions...you have to convince her of that, buy yourself some time. Is she staying home with the baby or working? Is she getting out with other moms similarly situated? this was very important for my wife.

My wife is not seeking advice from her friends or family, she knows they will not agree. She is working, but that also is a lot of stress, and she wants to quite, because she doesnt feel that they treat her as they should.
by Charl   5 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 12:15 PM
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Charl, I too feel the strain of the new baby. The added responsibilty, financially and other are tremendous, so I know what it feels like to be anxious...plus other things ;) have not returned to normal either, so that can be a strain as well.....
by gomundo2   69 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 10:56 AM
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From personal experience I can tell you my wife has not been in any frame of mind that should be making such life changing decisions...you have to convince her of that, buy yourself some time. Is she staying home with the baby or working? Is she getting out with other moms similarly situated? this was very important for my wife.
by gomundo2   69 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 10:51 AM
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I am not giving up yet, but it is her choice to make.
by Charl   5 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 10:41 AM
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