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Spasnskitz is always so right on the money! Everyone else too, but I think the overnights around the kids are a bit much, unless they're married. It's too hard to explain to the kids why it's okay that one of you has someone other than their other parent in the bed with you. They just don't understand. If it's serious enough that you would marry them today, then I think it's time to start the introductions. Other than that, kids shouldn't see someone else overnight. I don' t think you can do anything about them meeting her, but staying in the same house overnight is too much for a baby of 3, or any age really! He's doing too much too soon. Be careful with putting clauses in your divorce...it's one more thing to have to go back to court for later and spend more money to change. Unless you include an ending date or set time period, you'll spend $$ later to reverse things. No thanks! The lawyers get no more of my kids money!