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He is making me Crazy

I had a long talk with my stbx and at first he seemed like he would let me move with the kids for my new job.  Now he says that "WE" can move as a family but he won't let me move with the kids and he will "drain his finances" to fight for primary custody of the boys.
I thought that we could be reasonable for the kids sake and now it seems like he just wants me to stay or he will make my life as miserable as possible.
I desperately want to move ASAP and now I think that it could take another 6 months at least if he fights me.
Does anyone have any advice on what to do??????
by marsham    16 Posts   
Posted on 6/20/2008 7:52 AM    
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I don't only want to move because of the job.  We now live away from all our extended family (his and mine).  I want to move close to them so the kids and me have them for support and to spend time with them that we have missed for the last 10 years.  The total distance from place to place is 3 hours.  When we sell the house, he could move somewhere in-between and it would be less than that.
I don't want to keep him from the kids I just need to be seperate from him and I have no support where we are.
by marsham   16 Posts
Posted on 6/20/2008 11:16 AM
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How fare away are you taking the kids? Don't you think it is going to hurt him to take the kids away from him? If the job is so important to you, leave the kids with him and take the job! Remember you have to think about the other side of this. This is coming from the GUYS side of things. I would not let my EX take the kids away from me for a job or anything. Sorry
by Gorf   117 Posts
Posted on 6/20/2008 7:57 AM
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