I am at a total lost of what to do and I need some advice.  My wife of nine years left with our two children on Friday morning.  She left me a letter.

It only seems like she took just her bags and that's it and she is currently at her bother's house.

I have never cheated on her and I have been madly in love with her for nine years.  She left me because I was fired from my last job and I didn't have the guts to tell her so I lied and told her I got laid off.  She was afraid I would become depress and ruin our family. On the contrary I have not been depressed and find a job a priority for me.

She has ignored my emails and her family (my in-laws...I really thought they accepted me as fmaily) is ignoring me as well.  I had no idea I was doing anything wrong to warrant a seperation.

Every minute for me has been in total anguish and i feel alone.  We only had one car and she took that so more or less, I am sorta stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I miss her badly and I miss the children.  I haven't eaten in three days and slept for only a few hours or so.  I talked to her last night but it was very short. I begged her to see a counselor with me and she said it was too late more or less.

Do you think she'll come back? I need her. She's my soulmate.