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is it just fear or guilt or what?

Well  therapy session #2 is done.  I left feeling miserable and sad.  Basically, husband is admiitting to the things he does wrong in the communication department, and he is really trying.  I am left in the same place I was before.  I am just scared.  I don't like him any more.  I don't think I love him anymore.  I am not attracted to him anymore.  I have been kissing butt for so long that I simply resent him.  My heart hurts over this, feel like crying becasue if I don't fix this I will be a 40 year old divorced mother of 2 alone, with no husband.  Or I can stick with it and be unhappy.  Maybe I am getting ahead of my self and just feeling sorry for myself, who knows.  Either way today is not good.  Anyone out there in the same boat? anyone want to comiserate with me?
by jowi    22 Posts   
Posted on 6/13/2008 9:39 AM    
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i'm "a 40 year old divorced mother of 2 alone, with no husband"...and it's not that bad.  once you get over the divorce issues.....and learn how to do everything in the world, all at the same time....it's fine.  don't think about things like that when making one of the biggest decisions of your life.  think about what's real and true....do you want to be with this person anymore?  is he the right one for you and your family? is he helping you or hurting you?
by paula1   3167 Posts
Posted on 6/13/2008 2:20 PM
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