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He doesn't want to talk

My stbx doesn't want to talk about anything. I cornered him this morning. I dropped the kids off at school and went back to the house to talk to him. I told him that I want to move and I don't think that our relationship is savable and that we should get a divorce.
The only thing he heard was moving and he doesn't want to move. I told him that I wasn't asking if he wanted to move. I am moving and if he doesn't want to, we are definately over.
He said he had to leave for an important meeting at work, I can't think of anything else right now - even though I am working.
I want a divorce and I want to move to take this new position. I just don't want to fight with him any more.

by marsham 18 Posts
Posted on 6/11/2008 8:05 AM

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See a lawyer and file the papers - once he's served with the suit, he'll talk with you. Or at least his lawyer will talk with yours.

If you're wanting to move and take the kids with you, you'll need an attorney to work this all out. Without an attorney advising you, it's possible you could walk into some serious problems moving away and taking the kids.

Good luck!

by willsmom 16 Posts
Posted on 6/11/2008 12:46 PM

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I have been trying for a month and he always has an excuse. He is tired, he doesn't wan to talk about something that will stress him out before --- (fill in the blank).
I realize that he is in denial, but I am not sure that I have any patience left for his theory of just pretend everthing is ok and it will be ok.
That is what he has been doing for most of our marriage.
Ostrich's with their heads in the sand can still be seen by the lion.

by marsham 18 Posts
Posted on 6/11/2008 11:11 AM

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try to put yourself in his shoes.....it sounds like he is in denial that you want this divorce. try to get him to talk. but find a time that neither of you are rushed and can take time to discuss this.

by paula1 2545 Posts
Posted on 6/11/2008 8:43 AM

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