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For 7 years he has gotten into drugs, or on binges. Hes gone for 3 days. I am over it. He said if it happened again that he would understand and not stop me from leaving. I really don't beleive that.

by freckles    5 Posts   
Posted on 6/8/2008 9:27 PM    
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Barklry-- He gets a hotel room.  The latest he spent $900.00,  and all I wanted to do was get a hair cut.  Its just sad.  I have been keeping a log on what and when things happen.  I know this will help me when I need it. 

you want to know something funny,  Me and the kids enjoy him not being hear.  That is what I want now.

by freckles   5 Posts
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Sounds like your spouse has an addiction problem. The only person who can help him get better is him. You need to talk with a professional to talk about how you can remain healthy in the meantime. Good luck,
by Flagirl   278 Posts
Posted on 6/9/2008 6:06 AM
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Has he tried to get help for his drug addiction?  he needs to grow up and get help before he ruins his life anymore.
by Bea4   406 Posts
Posted on 6/8/2008 10:34 PM
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Where does he go for 3 days?  Why are you staying with him?  Life is too short, you need to be happy and not sit around waiting for him to come home.  Hold your head high and be strong.  Good Luck to you!
by Barkley   817 Posts
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