My wife of 8 years has begun a relationship with another man and

she's not willing to end it. She told our counselor and I that today in our first session. She doesn't want to continue. Still i feel, Do I wait? Do I File for divorce immediately. I begged her to stay and work on our relationship that i failed to see i was neglecting and she failed to stay committed to. She left.... seems obvious to me but ..... Any comments are appreciated

by GettyGuy 10 Posts
Posted on 6/5/2008 7:13 PM

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I just think that more respect is deserved for anyone in a relationship. If it is not going to work whole hearted then the other party should be able to leave freely and with not false promises or hopes. Everyone needs a life and to be valued for what they contribute to the world, not held in competition with other things or people.

by binty 1 Post
Posted on 6/7/2008 10:04 PM

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thanks for the comments. I am going to start divorce tomorrow . I cannot sit and wait. Right now, 10PM, i know she's with him and its eating me alive. I'm going to try to find a chat about this cuz i need someone to talk to. thanks again!

by GettyGuy 10 Posts
Posted on 6/5/2008 8:59 PM

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You need to be the stronger person and make the first step to move on. She needs to feel what it is like without you waiting on her. You need to be happy and meet someone that will want to be with you and you only. Life is too short to wait around on her. good luck to you Be strong. Keep me posted.;

by Barkley 912 Posts
Posted on 6/5/2008 8:35 PM

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It sounds like she may want to end it. If it were me...I would start the divorce proceedings. It will either shake her into reality where she will see that she needs to change, or it will begin the ending process for you.
No need beating a dead horse. If she wants out you can't change her mind. If she needs a wake up call filing for separation may be it.
Good luck to you!

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 6/5/2008 7:44 PM

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