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Court ordered remain in same house

LONG story...but a quick synopsis. I filed nearly 1 year ago (he had requested divorce 6 months prior..went to counseling....no help) he refused to leave the home , court ordered both of us to remain ....myself and my child have been imprisoned for a year of emotional abuse....now I am changing all that and it is difficult, but I am determined. He wants to prolong this mess to just torture me and I will NOT allow him to any longer. SOOOOO is there ANYONE in the Ohio area that is faced with this horrible dilemma? I have very few friends (my best friend moved a month after I filed) and my family is over an hour away... Any one out there that is in this type of situation?? NEED strength and friends desperately that can RELATE ...

by cherisheddream   11 Posts 
Posted on 5/31/2008 9:05 AM
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Yes, I truly do wonder at what the system is attempting to do with this type of arrangement. He is capable of prolonging it as long as he wants (which he does because it is torture for me and this is his payback).

Our daily life is very tension filled. I have to arrange my life around him...he is out having the time of his life, while I sit and do nothing due to financial situation that I have. He doesnt even speak to us. My child and I just avoid him. I try to make it as comfortable for our child, but he is so aware of how unfair the courts have been to me (and him).

I would LOVE to have friends around to hang out with. I do have one friend who lets us watch movies and hang out, but it is not fair for him either.

Well..if there are any in the same type of situation..please say hi...

by cherisheddream   11 Posts
Posted on 5/31/2008 7:20 PM
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Try to get in touch with spaznkits. She is a family law attorney and has been helpful to me .I will tell you to document everything. Date and as much info as you can remember. It is a shame that you have to stay there. Have to wonder what is wrong with our system huh?

by mtnvly   2418 Posts
Posted on 5/31/2008 10:26 AM
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Well, i dont fit your description (sorry) but man, do i feel for you! sorry!

How much longer do you have to both be there? whats your day-to-day life like?

sorry for you!
by firecracker   153 Posts
Posted on 5/31/2008 9:53 AM
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