Disposable....

he may not be enjoying himself as much as you think. Maybe he is hiding because he knows he is making a mistake or maybe there is something else behind it. God only knows what goes on in a mans mind during these messes. My loving hubby only communicates through text messages. Tells me to call about something & don't answer and has become a drinker a HEAVY DRINKER all in a month. Trust me.... he is not himself and I can not explain his behavior for nothing. You need to work on your self esteem! It isn't easy. Takes a lot of coaxing & self cheering but you got to do it. Don't try to explain him.  Take care of you & your broken heart.

Sometimes I wish we had children so there would be a reason for communication... although I know that would be worse for the child.  I just can't believe I mean absolutley nothing to my HUSBAND.  I feel very sad and wish I had more anger.  My self esteem is very low... especailly knowing he is out there enjoying himself.  I feel very empty.

at least he can muster that much up. Mine hasn't talked to my girls except when he came up to get the boy. No calls, no nothing yet he made a big stink about them calling him daddy & will always be & loves them. BLAH BLAH BLAH Worried I would make them hate him but I don't have to lift a finger there. My middle child is about to turn 7, at fist she wanted daddy there,. Today she shays it is up to me cause he don't love any of us no more. Just the boy. She wants me to "get a new man" as she says cause she misses having a daddy. Some day I will but for now I will sit back and enjoy the fire works.........it is building up in the girls and...... BOOM...... so glad I never taught them to hold their tongues when something is not fair.

My ex took a temporary job overseas 10 years ago. It was to help our daughter get thru college with no loans. Almost as soon as he left he was building a new life for himself.
The whole time we were married he never associated with his co workers. We never socialized with anyone from work. I found out he had married a Chinese girl in 2005. We were still married at that time. I found pictures of him socializing with co workers in Trinidad with this girl. The only division of his company who knew about me was benefits. He openly told the Houston division of his company that he had a Chinese wife. We divorced in Dec. 2007. He is now in the states working and trying to immigrate the wife into the states.  Unless he thinks I can help him in some way I never hear from him. He has even less contact with his daughter. That is the sad part. If he gets this wife into the staes he will cut off all contact with his daughter. He told the new wife we were divorced in 96. So he can't let the two meet. So sad the games people play.

i relate.  we (me and the kids) were erased two weeks before xmas. he didn't call or answer phone calls.  he didn't email or answer emails.  he didn't see or talk to his kids for about 3 months.  it's a very odd feeling.  i can tell you that if he is acting like this now, it doesn't get much better later.  the best my ex can muster is picking up the phone 1-2 days a week to say goodnight to his kids.  that's about it.